Three Daily Priorities for Teens (20 Jan 2006)

Creating three daily priorities for teens can help them set goals and keep them from focusing so much on themselves. As your teen gets ready in the morning, help him or her get into the habit of setting three simple goals for that day. Areas to focus on include school, self and service to others:

1)What is the most important thing he needs to focus on at school that day (test, assignments, a difficult subject)?

2)What is one important thing she can do for herself that day (eat right, exercise, get to bed earlier)?

3)What is something your teen can do for someone else (play with a sibling, be nice to someone at school who is always picked on, give compliments, help out around the house)?

By focusing your teen on these priorities, he or she can begin to set and achieve goals. Your teen may also begin to overcome normal insecurities and worries. In essence, your teen is learning to take control and not focus so much on things that cannot be controlled. It also will give you insight into your child's life and provide opportunities to give praise and encouragement each day.

Teaching Your Children Values, Linda and Richard Eyre, Simon & Schuster, 1993